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The Wait for Clemency is Real – The Mr.’s Raw Emotions

December 13, 2016 By Real Wife

So the Mr. wrote me explaining how the first thing people ask when they e-mail him is how is he doing and how’s his day? He normally just gives a typical response. However, this particular day, he chose to share his raw emotions as he awaits possible clemency… How’s your day? Well, my day has been […]

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Do You Know What Today Is? It’s Our Anniversary! Our Prison Wedding

November 23, 2016 By Real Wife

I can’t believe four years have already passed since me and the Mr. said I do! This week four years ago two of my sister-friends went with me to take that leap. I often dreamed of my dream wedding, like most ladies do. You know, the colors? Who would be my bridesmaids? Where would it […]

Prison Life

Are Inmates Being Rehabilitated While Incarcerated?

November 16, 2016 By Real Wife

I was sentenced to 22 ½ years in federal prison to be rehabilitated, confined behind these prison walls, in order to be restored to good condition/health since I was unfit to be free in society (due to a drug crime conviction). I absolutely agree that in our society we need prisons for people who are deemed […]

Conscious Clutter

The Justice System Is Not So Just

November 1, 2016 By Real Wife

There are several federal inmates currently serving major time, some even life sentences, due to the not so just justice system. One of those who knows too well but too late is the Mr., my husband. I must admit I was hesitant about sharing his story, and I’ve held on to it for a few weeks. […]

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Addiction…Are We All Addicts?

October 20, 2016 By Real Wife

From Behind the Wall with the Mr. The first thing people think about when you speak about addiction is drugs, hell drugs aren’t even the #1 addiction. Throughout your life span, you learn about so many addictions – sex, drugs, gambling, hell even sugars sends the same kind of signal to the brain that drugs do! […]

Prison Life

My Princess … A Daddy’s Love from Behind the Wall

September 28, 2016 By Real Wife

Let me tell you it’s such a surreal feeling every time I see My Little Princess, hell after serving 11 1/2 years of a 22 1/2 year sentence in federal prison you would understand exactly what I mean. Understand that when I was arrested she was 2 month’s shy of turning 3 years old but […]

Prison Life

Our First Prison Visit

September 21, 2016 By Real Wife

The first true prison visit was quite an experience. We were so glad that my fiance had been designated after a year or two wait in the county jail. We will get the chance to actually touch him, hug and kiss him. He will finally get to hold our son for the first time. He was […]

Conscious Clutter

Hello From the Other Side: A Son’s Intro to His Father

September 17, 2016 By Real Wife

So the day has finally come for my son to be introduced to his father! After several telephone calls explaining his features and “first moments”, you know the first babble, the first table food experience, the first steps, the first day at daycare, first potty training attempts he finally gets to see him in person. […]

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Married Single Mom

September 2, 2016 By Real Wife

Have you ever heard of a married single mom? I hadn’t either until it innocently slipped from my mouth when I was explaining my marital status to a few ladies I met. I was at a book club meeting for the first time and of course we all had to introduce ourselves. As everyone […]

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The Walking Dead: Losing a Loved One to Prison

August 24, 2016 By Real Wife

The Walking Dead: Losing a loved one to prison. As I mentioned in the article, “You Have a Collect Call From ___ At the County Jail”, I experienced so many different emotions. One minute I would be ok with the situation, the next minute I would be upset with my fiancè. I would try to […]